episode 43
Masochism & The First Lie: Why We Punish Ourselves with Dr. Loren Weiner
Dr. Loren Weiner - "I Don't Deserve It" (And Why That's Wrong) - And Now Love Podcast #podcast
“I lost it. I must not deserve it.” That’s the masochistic voice. Babies do nothing to deserve less self. 🍼 No one does. ❤️🩹 Reclaim what was always yours.🫶 #Deservingness #InnerChild #UnlearnGuilt #Masochism #HealingTheImprint #AndNowLove
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Dr. Loren Weiner - "Life is Torture" Dream - And Now Love Podcast #podcast #podcastclips
A book titled LIFE IS TORTURE shows up in a dream. 📕 Dreams don’t lecture, they mirror. 🪞If that title fits, it’s time to ask why pain feels safer than pleasure.🌤️ #dreaminterpretation #selfcompassion #masochism #psychoanalysis #dreamsymbols
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Dr. Loren Weiner - "Where Do I Make Myself Suffer?" - And Now Love Podcast #podcast
Ask yourself: Where did I make life harder today? 📝 Missing deadlines, skipping joy, earning love by suffering, these are teachable moments. Noticing is the first intervention.🧐 #Masochism #SelfInquiry #PatternBreak #FamilyMessages #InnerFreedom #dreams
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Dr. Loren Weiner - Head-Injury Dreams & The "Blast" - And Now Love Podcast #podcast #podcastclips
Baseball bats, speeding balls, shots to the head, dreams use impact to show how violent the original imprint felt. ⚾ The message isn’t doom; it’s direction: go look there to heal. 🔁 #DreamSymbols #Dreams #TraumaInDreams #Psyche #Imprint #AndNowLove
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Dr. Loren Weiner - The Imprint & "The First Lie" - And Now Love Podcast #podcast #podcastclips
We inherit more than eye color. 👶The fetus tries to carry mom’s pain and then believes the “first lie”: 💭 It’s my fault. 🌀That buried guilt drives lifelong self-denial until we bring it to light.🔦 #ImprintTheory #BernardBail #UnconsciousGuilt #masochism #healingjourney #dreams
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Dr. Loren Weiner - Procrastination & Self-Sabotage - And Now Love Podcast #podcast #podcastclips
“Why do I keep doing this to myself?” Procrastination can be quiet self-punishment, an unconscious way to make sure we don’t deliver our best. ⏳Spot it, name it, and choose better.🧠 #Masochism #SelfSabotage #procrastination #UnconsciousGuilt #innerwork #andnowlove
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