episode 72
Are You Living Your Mother's Life? Dr. Loren Weiner on the Imprint, Identification, and Becoming Yourself
What Is the Imprint? How It Differs From Identification
Dr. Loren Weiner breaks down Dr. Bernard Bail's key discovery: the imprint received from our mothers as early as the womb — her unprocessed feelings, taken in before we can know it. #TheImprint #DrBernardBail #Psychoanalysis #MotherAndChild #AndNowLove
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A World of People Not Being Themselves
Dr. Loren Weiner on the bigger picture: families, cities, and whole systems built by people living out inherited limitations — and why that shapes what we're all able to have. #Consciousness #Society #Psychology #InnerWork #AndNowLove
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Are We Really Living Our Own Lives?
Dr. Loren Weiner explains how a therapist hears the parents inside a patient's daily life — and the question she asks again and again: "Where did you learn to do it that way?" #Psychotherapy #DreamAnalysis #SelfDiscovery #Parents #AndNowLove
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We Are Not Born Unlovable
Before the imprint, we are all love — lovable and able to love. Cynthia Marks and Dr. Loren Weiner on why the imprint dissolves into us so early that we live it out as if it were us. #SelfLove #Lovable #Psychology #Healing #AndNowLove
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The Ball Metaphor: How Much of You Is You?
Dr. Loren Weiner shares a powerful way to picture the imprint: a ball taken into the ball that is you. If it's big enough, it can eclipse who you really are — but underneath, you are still there. #TheImprint #Psychology #TrueSelf #SelfDiscovery #AndNowLove
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Simple Ways to Start Observing Yourself
Do you always say yes when you mean no? Dr. Loren Weiner shares simple, practical ways to notice your patterns — and to ask, "Where did I learn to do it that way?" #SelfAwareness #Mindfulness #PersonalGrowth #InnerWork #AndNowLove
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Everything We Build Reflects What's Inside Us
Dr. Loren Weiner explains why a world built by people carrying unconscious limitations will reflect those limitations — and why questioning the rules we follow inside is where change begins #InnerWork #Psychology #SelfAwareness #Consciousness #AndNowLove
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When a Mother’s Pain Erases a Child’s True Self
What happens when a mother’s unresolved suffering takes up so much space it erases a child’s true self before it’s even born? In this short clip from our full podcast And Now Love, our host Cyntha Marks explores the idea of “internal wandering,” where someone lives their life without truly inhabiting it, and connect it to what’s visible on the streets of Los Angeles—especially Skid Row and the struggling communities of the 57th District—where the imprint is not only psychological but systemic, shaped by being unseen by the law and erased by the economy. #AndNowLove #InternalWandering #SadeElhawary #MentalHealthEquity #TheImprint #LALife
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